Fall 2012 ~ Shoujo Kisses
October 8, 2012
The Fall 2012 anime season brings us an unusually high number of shoujo romance series. Typically there is at most one shoujo title (excluding mahou shoujo titles, which are aimed at a younger viewer). But this time around we have three titles, and this gives us an opportunity we never had before to compare and contrast currently airing shoujo titles. (The three shoujo series this season are: Kamisama Hajimemashita, Suki-tte Ii na yo, and Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun the titles have been presented in English as Kamisama Kiss, Say ‘I love you’, and My Little Monster, respectively).
Spoiler Alert: Although this post only looks at the first episodes of each of these three titles, I’ll be discussing the episodes as if you had already seen the first episodes of every one of these titles. If you want to get the full impact of seeing the shows for yourself, watch them before reading the discussion that follows.
The Girls
My main interest here is that every one of these shows ended with a first kiss, and that will be the focus of my discussion. To start, though, let’s compare our three leading ladies.
anime: Kamisama Hajimemashita
Tragic Backstory: Abandoned by no good father, who foisted his gambling debts onto her.
Headstrong = Yes: Even faced with death, she refuses to grovel for help, and thus becomes a true goddess.
anime: Suki-tte Ii na yo
Tragic Backstory: Was framed for death of class pet rabbit as a child. This taught her to never trust anybody.
Headstrong = Yes: Rather than submit to bullying, she strikes back (although she ends up attacking the wrong person).
anime: Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
Tragic Backstory: Was ostracized by kids because she didn’t care when class pet rabbit died.
Headstrong = Yes: Demonstrated multiple times, including studying while she was kidnapped, and telling Haru’s false friends off.
The Boys
anime: Kamisama Hajimemashita
Bad Boy credentials: Fox demon
Saves the female lead in the first episode = Yes: Saves her from being eaten by an oni-baba … but only after Nanami forces him to do so.
anime: Suki-tte Ii na yo
Bad Boy credentials: Player
Saves the female lead in the first episode = Yes: Literally runs to her rescue. Saves her from stalker when Mei calls him for help.
anime: Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
Bad Boy credentials: Delinquent
Saves the female lead in the first episode = Yes: Comes to her help without being asked. Saves Suzuku from “kidnappers”, but ends up hurting her in the process.
The Kisses
anime: Kamisama Hajimemashita
Context: Nanami grabs Tomoe and kisses him, thus binding him to her as her divine messenger and servant.
anime: Suki-tte Ii na yo
Context: Yamato kisses Mei in public to display his ownership of her, and chase off someone else.
anime: Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun
Context: While on something like a date, after being in a sort-of relationship for a couple of months, Haru grabs Shizuku, and forcibly kisses her.
Conclusion
Right now I’m less interested in formula than I am in what sets these shows apart. So, yeah, we have three plucky girls with tragic backgrounds, who end up in relationships with a bit of a bad boy. The most obvious difference is in the depiction of power relationships.
In both Suki-tte Ii na yo, and Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun the girl’s first kiss is “stolen”, but in Kamisama Hajimemashita, the girl is the one that does the stealing. Not only that, the anime, both visually and in dialogue, makes it clear that this gives Nanami power in the relationship.
In each of the other anime, it appears that the girl is the one that is bound. Certainly at the end of Suki-tte Ii na yo, Mei is in the weakest position of the three girls. It is quite possible that Yamato has kissed many girls before, and he kisses Mei expressly to indicate his ownership of her.
Nanami is, of course, in the strongest position of the three, so that leaves Shizuku in the middle. That might seem a strange comment to some people who reacted strongly to Haru’s insensitivity (to put it mildly). Haru acts as a stalker, and even threatens to rape Shizuku at one point, so grabbing her, and forcibly kissing her has some disturbing connotations.
Given that Haru is rough with Shizuku, and Yamato passes himself off as the white knight, I can understand that some people will come to different opinions about the two relationships. I think the following two points need to be considered, however. First, while Haru and Shizuku have been involved in a (somewhat one-sided) relationship for months, Yamato has only known Mei for a matter of days. More importantly, Haru and Shizuku are on even footing, in that neither of them is experienced in friendship or romance, while Yamato and Mei are very unevenly matched, in that Yamato is a player, who regularly goes on group dates with various girls, while Mei is a complete outcast.
It isn’t unusual that shoujo titles address the power structures that are implicit in romantic relationships, but it is unusual that we have several concurrently airing series to compare side by side. It will be very interesting to see how the shows develop throughout the season.
October 8, 2012 at 9:44 pm
Excellent post – very good contrasting those three shows, all of which I am following.
It seems I’ve also made the same mental notes you have regarding the guys in these three shows.
Yamato x Mei may well turn out well, and “that scene” between Haru x Shizuku was abrasive, but between the two I think the Haru x Shizuku dynamic is the more interesting, particularly having just seen episode 2 of Tonari no Kaibutsu-kun.
Still, of the three, Kamisama Hajimemashita is the one I see as having the greatest potential for a good story – all those two have to do is look at each other and the sparks fly 😉
October 8, 2012 at 10:28 pm
I also love the artwork in Kamisama Hajimemashita; it is very stylized, but looks great.
October 9, 2012 at 10:52 am
The female protagonist’s first kiss in shojo series is almost never consensual. Whether it’s an accident Lovely Complex, Hana Yori Dango or forced Maid-sama, the main couple’s first kiss is rarely romantic. It’s interesting you talk about a power dynamic – because even though Nanami is Tomoe’s ‘master,’ she has to depend on him to learn more about the shrine and her powers, not to mention he can be quite cold to her, so I see their dynamic as similar to most contemporary shojo couples.
October 9, 2012 at 6:28 pm
That’s a fair point. I still think Nanami has unparalleled power in the relationship compared to the other two heroines, but it certainly is more complicated than total control.
October 9, 2012 at 5:22 pm
Your comparison between “Tragic Back-stories” made me laugh. I’ve seen all three but the realization that two stories had females impacted by the deaths of class bunny rabbits only just now occurred. The contrast with Kamisama Hajimeashita is nearly absurd once I realized that. Now I am wondering what ever happened to the third grade girl from my past that allowed our class birds to die by letting them escape to freedom outside during a northern Canadian winter. A real life set up for a shoujo style romance perhaps?
October 9, 2012 at 6:33 pm
Wow, she probably didn’t realize at the time that what she was doing was writing her own ticket to a storybook romance. I still feel sorry for the bird, though. I doubt I could handle a SOUTH Canadian Winter!
October 12, 2012 at 7:34 am
*didn’t realize that all three shoujo series which debuted this season already had a kiss on its first episode* Must be a new trend.
October 12, 2012 at 4:35 pm
That’s because you are being obstinate about watching Kamisama Hajimemashita. :^\
October 14, 2012 at 11:32 am
Oh yeah….. ugh….. but I’m still not watching =_=